We can draw near to God while we are still hurting
3
We bring real burdens to worship
The difficult situation may still be waiting when we go home
4
Our Savior knows sorrow from experience
We bring our pain to someone who understands
5
He was despised and forsaken of men, A man of sorrows and acquainted with grief; And like one from whom men hide their face He was despised, and we did not esteem Him.
Isaiah 53:3 · NASB
6
Surely our griefs He Himself bore, And our sorrows He carried; Yet we ourselves esteemed Him stricken, Smitten of God, and afflicted.
Isaiah 53:4 · NASB
7
But He was pierced through for our transgressions, He was crushed for our iniquities; The chastening for our well-being fell upon Him, And by His scourging we are healed.
Isaiah 53:5 · NASB
8
All of us like sheep have gone astray, Each of us has turned to his own way; But the LORD has caused the iniquity of us all To fall on Him.
Isaiah 53:6 · NASB
9
I
Our Savior Is Acquainted with Grief
Isaiah 53:3
10
Being faithful to God does not mean we will never hurt
Jesus obeyed His Father perfectly and knew real sorrow
11
Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
Hebrews 4:16 · NASB
12
When I am afraid, I will put my trust in You.
Psalm 56:3 · NASB
13
You have taken account of my wanderings; Put my tears in Your bottle. Are they not in Your book?
Psalm 56:8 · NASB
14
You do not have to stop crying before you can pray in faith
15
Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.
Romans 12:15 · NASB
16
We urge you, brethren, admonish the unruly, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with everyone.
1 Thessalonians 5:14 · NASB
17
But God, who comforts the depressed, comforted us by the coming of Titus;
2 Corinthians 7:6 · NASB
18
II
He Bore the Sins We Could Not Remove
Isaiah 53:4–5
19
This was to fulfill what was spoken through Isaiah the prophet: "HE HIMSELF TOOK OUR INFIRMITIES AND CARRIED AWAY OUR DISEASES."
Matthew 8:17 · NASB
20
At the cross, Jesus dealt with our guilt before God
We cannot erase our sins by suffering enough ourselves
21
and He Himself bore our sins in His body on the cross, so that we might die to sin and live to righteousness; for by His wounds you were healed.
1 Peter 2:24 · NASB
22
The trial itself is not proof of personal wrongdoing
Christ offers comfort in suffering and forgiveness for sin
23
Christ’s sacrifice provides forgiveness and reconciliation with God
Isaiah 53 does not promise immediate recovery from every illness
24
III
The Shepherd Receives People Who Have Wandered
Isaiah 53:6
25
Each of us has gone our own way
An honest confession begins with our own sins
26
Our unanswered questions do not undo Christ’s act of love
The Son of God gave Himself for sinners
27
For you were continually straying like sheep, but now you have returned to the Shepherd and Guardian of your souls.
1 Peter 2:25 · NASB
28
We know love by this, that He laid down His life for us; and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.
1 John 3:16 · NASB
29
But whoever has the world's goods, and sees his brother in need and closes his heart against him, how does the love of God abide in him?
1 John 3:17 · NASB
30
Little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth.
1 John 3:18 · NASB
31
Love begins with the person and the need before us
A meal, a ride, or a listening ear can relieve a burden
32
Pray with them and keep praying for them
Prayer is real help
33
Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much.
James 5:16 · NASB
34
Listen long enough to learn what would help
Give them room to tell you as much as they choose
35
Respect their privacy
Ask what they want shared before passing a request to others
36
Offer a specific kindness and follow through
Ask whether a meal, a ride, or groceries would help
37
Keep caring after the first wave of concern passes
Agree on a suitable time to check back
38
Let someone know how to come alongside you
You can name a need without sharing every detail
39
Feeling alone does not mean there is no one beside you
God reassured Elijah and sent him onward to work that included Elisha
40
Choose one trustworthy Christian and share one need
There are times to give strength and times to receive it
41
Our Savior understands sorrow
His worth was never diminished by His suffering
42
Christ bore our sins and provided peace with God
His love calls us to pray and give practical help
43
Come to the Savior who bore our sins
Believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God
44
And Peter said to them, "Repent, and let each of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins; and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
Acts 2:38 · NASB
45
Rise to live faithfully under His care
His sacrifice is the reason forgiveness is available
46
Return to Christ and receive the help you need
You can begin privately with one trusted Christian